Seeking a better future for her disabled son, former national hockey player for Pakistan Shahida Raza enlisted human smugglers to get her out of the country.
Her life ended this week off the coast of Italy when the boat carrying her and scores of others sank.
According to her friend and former teammate Summaya Kainat, 27-year-old Raza left her home on the outskirts of Quetta, in southwestern Balochistan province, four months ago for neighbouring Iran and then Turkiye, with the aim of eventually reaching Italy or Australia and seeking asylum there.
Raza was a member of the Shia Hazara minority, a sect often targeted by Islamist militants, and had opted for asylum because she believed it was easier to gain refugee status after illegally entering these countries than to get a regular visa, Kainat added.
“She was the sole breadwinner of the family,” Kainat told Reuters at Raza’s modest family home, while Raza’s widowed mother and younger sister sobbed uncontrollably in a room that had been turned into a makeshift shrine filled with certificates, medals and trophies celebrating her sporting achievements.
“She told me that as soon as she got a job, she would take her son Hasan away with her,” she added.
Hasan, aged three, was born with a disability that left him unable to speak or move unaided, Kainat added.
She could not name the disability.
Raza’s mother and other family member did not want to be interviewed for this story.
Raza was one of two nationals that Pakistan’s foreign ministry said had been killed in the shipwreck.
Another 17 Pakistanis were rescued, while two remain missing, the ministry said in a statement yesterday.
The boat, which is believed to have carried up to 200, sank before dawn on Sunday.
Those onboard were mostly from Afghanistan.
Raza started playing hockey in the national league in 2007 and for years was sponsored by the army and the water and power authority, Kainat and Balochistan government officials said.
She also played soccer in domestic competitions.
When the sponsorship ended, Kainat said, Raza was left jobless in a country suffering its worst economic crisis in decades.
Raza’s husband divorced her, citing his inability to live with a disabled child, according to Kainat.
“Whenever, I talked to her on WhatsApp during her stay in Iran or Turkiye, she was crying and asking after Hasan,” Kainat said.